To sit more comfortably, try thinking that the chair is your legs.
This video comes from Tip 46, where you can see two diagrams, a slightly different description, and the answer to the ultimate Super Bowl question.
And here are a few more tips on sitting.
A Totally Different Idea on Sitting
Extra
A Podcast from Robert Rickover Negotiation and the Alexander Technique
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